Everyone has a story to tell.

Are we listening?

Today, let’s look at four talking tips from a hitch-hiker. It is an inspiring story happening over 2,000 years ago. Modern-day hitch-hikers use Uber or Lyft to get around town. In the few minutes, people are in my car I sometimes get to hear bits & pieces of their history. Usually, I greet them with; “good morning, how are you today”? Responses surprise me sometimes! “terrible”, “great”, “silence”. At times I hear a history of their last year in my 7-minute drive. Everyone has a story to tell, and most would like someone to listen.

My definition of a hitch-hiker is a person walking along a road and he or she is invited to enter a vehicle to go for a ride.

The man in this story fits my description.

There is usually a story within a story which is true in this narrative.

Look, for the four talking tips from a hitch-hiker in this scripture.

Philip, one of the apostles of Christ, could be the first hitch-hiker recorded in history.

It is an interesting story, here is just a snippet of the story found in the Bible’s book of Acts:

The Holy Spirit said to Philip, “Go over and walk along beside the carriage.”

Philip ran over and heard the man reading from the prophet Isaiah. Philip asked, “Do you understand what you are reading?”

The man replied, “How can I unless someone instructs me?” And he urged Philip to come up into the carriage and sit with him. – The eunuch asked Philip, “Tell me, was the prophet talking about himself or someone else?” So beginning with this same Scripture, Philip told him the Good News about Jesus. Acts 8:29-31 & 34, 35

Now, I would not even assume to say that the Apostle Phillip was trying to hitch a ride since he was explicitly told to “go over and walk beside the carriage” by the Holy Spirit. Aside from the beautiful spiritual transformation of the Ethiopian man, we can grasp insight on how to make the most of these chance meetings with people.

This story of Phillip changed the tale of a man and forever is inscribed in the Book for us to read today.

Stick with me here since I have discovered some good insight on how to kick up our conversations a notch.

Here are my four talking tips from a hitch-hiker for meaningful discussions with people, especially those we meet briefly.

We have to make ourselves available to people. Phillip ‘ran over’ to the Ethiopian’s side of the road to be more accessible.
Most people would like us to ask them to tell their story. “Do you understand what you are reading?” the Apostle said.
We just might have to sit and listen to the person for some time. Phillip sat with the man in his carriage.
This last point is the key; It helps to begin with where they are at in their story. Aha! Phillip did this; “so beginning with this same scripture.”

“A suffering person does not need a lecture – he needs a listener.”– Billy Graham

“The word ‘listen’ contains the same letters as the word ‘silent.’” – Unknown

Summing it up on the qualities needed to impact people’s lives are these: Making ourselves available, asking good questions, taking time to sit with the person and giving input beginning with where the person is in their discussion concerning themselves. I think, Phillip, the hitch-hiker did his part well, don’t you? Now it is our turn.

Most of us know what I shared here but hopefully, it serves as a reminder of four qualities needed in the communication toolbox we use every day. Perhaps 2018 is the year to really communicate!

Did one or two of the four tips resonate with you and in what way?

Did I miss something that you would like to add?

Any questions on this post?

Please leave a comment, I’d like to hear from you.

Richard

First off, the date is not the issue.

The Western world sets the twenty-fifth of December as Christmas. The Eastern Orthodox will celebrate Jesus’ birth on or near to January 7, 2018. Eastern Orthodox use the Julian calendar which differs from the western Gregorian calendar. These dates are different as you can readily see. No one knows the exact date. I believe that God had a reason for the date not to be important. What is important, Jesus, the Son of God came into this world to redeem us. This historical fact is the reason we celebrate. If you are really ‘hung up’ on the date, Erick Erickson wrote an interesting article on this. You can read it here.

Let me tell you why my Christmas is not only merry but intensely bright.

At the age of ten my mother, Betty Armstrong, sat me down in our kitchen and explained to me how much I needed to accept Jesus as my Savior. That was sixty-five years ago! I got down on my knees, right there in my mother’s kitchen, and accepted Jesus as my personal Savior. It has not been all a bed of roses, most of my problems in life I attribute to my disobedience to God’s word. But here is a little secret. When I sinned and repented, God forgave me. Salvation, repentance, and restoration to my acceptance by God is a very happy thought, wouldn’t you agree?

My marriage to Fran has been a forty-seven-year gift to me. I think you’ll agree; I should be merry.

But there’s more.

My wife and I have five wonderful children. All have grown and given us many grandchildren, and even great-grandchildren How great is that. I’m pleased and merry about that.

My Christmas is merry and bright.

Don’t be like the religious leaders who were more concerned with tradition. Follow the example of the wise men, and seek God this Christmas. It’s the reason we celebrate Christmas – God wants to connect with you! Rick Warren

My Christmas season is merry because I’m connected. Secure with God because of His dear Son. Securely linked with my spouse and family. Connected to my extended family and to my many friends.

Maybe it would be a great idea to connect with someone we have not seen for many years. Renew old friendships. Keep in touch with those who have helped us over the years.

Yes, This Christmas can be the merriest one of all for us by connecting with Our Savior, our family, friends and forgotten people in our past.

I believe the Christmas story; my Christmas is merry.

And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the town of Nazareth to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David, to be registered with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. And while they were there, the time came for her to give birth. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger because there was no place for them in the inn. Luke chapter 2

Your Christmas should be merry and bright!

Make your Christmas merry this year by accepting God’s dear Son, Jesus as your Savior.

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MERRY CHRISTMAS

Richard

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Four Talking Tips From A Hitch-hiker